That One Thing …
Our life pretty much follow the same pattern. We go through childhood with lots of scars & memories (I know I did), school times including the university and then get a job, settle in & get married and someday we die. Well the order will slightly vary for different people.
There is one thing that we all will experience i.e. finding our loved one, the person that we will spend the rest of our life with (hopefully) 
Finding that person is quite tricky as he / she is the source of joy and despair. Some people might go out with lots of them before hitting it off with the right one and some only need a few attempts. Anyway all hell can break loose in the process.
Once I helped my mate to get him out of the messy situation he was in; a situation Victor Navorsky said as “too crowded”. Let me tell you, it wasn’t easy by any means. We are after all an emotional being; we don’t always follow what our head says. Getting our head and heart to agree is one of the arts we have to master in life 
I read my mate’s blog recently (won’t tell which one it’s a secret 
) where he wrote about a time when he fell for the wrong woman. I always believe that not to get involved with someone that is taken is the right thing to do. There are still many fishes in the sea than the one that is already taken Having said that, there are many people that do get involved. I believe it is wrong, but I do wonder how wrong it is. Is this a fight worth fighting at all costs? I don’t know the answer, but I hope I won’t have to do it as like I said it’s wrong.
Just my two cents anyway …
